Thats where Im at. I wont be exposing to all her family and friends. I understand there would be a big light shone on it which would remove the secrecy, a bi product of that would be having to deal with the shame. If i did expose at the moment it woud be for the wrong reasons. e.g. revenge She is a grown intelligent woman this is her mess, her problem and she needs to find a way out herself.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on