Hey Starsky

Thats where Im at. I wont be exposing to all her family and friends. I understand there would be a big light shone on it which would remove the secrecy, a bi product of that would be having to deal with the shame.
If i did expose at the moment it woud be for the wrong reasons. e.g. revenge
She is a grown intelligent woman this is her mess, her problem and she needs to find a way out herself.


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on