W still having PA with OP

[mvgfwd2]

Change your bedroom the way you would like it to be. Paint, sheets, move furniture, clothes where you like them, etc. All stuff you like without thinking of what she would like. It is your bedroom now. Not hers. She left it.

Maybe same for the bathroom, kitchen, etc. It's just a place for her to shower and change clothes not a home. And stop doing her laundry and other little things she should be doing on her own.

Like Mr. Bond said. Just do it, don't say a word. Asking is weak, doing is strong.