I've been following along and am sorry you find yourself here. I wouldn't worry too much about what stage W is in. She will get through this on her own. Focus on you and the kids and keep being a great mom:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer