I wouldn't worry about the coat. Always best to apologise for hurtful things, but where you have noticed something about your behaviour you would like to change, I would just note it and change it next time.
Your last post struck a chord with me and this is an area I'm working on too. I always felt I needed to control things and would be reminding about coats, drinks, this & that. I always saw it as a 'helpful' thing...keeping H and SS 'on track' if you like. But now I realise I might have been trying to keep them on (my) track. It's a bit exhausting sometimes and not very attractive. I'm trying to relax a bit more and go with the flow too...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
