Does d17 have a key? Go make a copy for your son. Your wife doesn't seem to care about this kind of stuff, since it impacts your son, I would say you need to take care of it.

Your way to counteract your wife's lack of care is to step up big time. I don't mean be the good time dad but I mean remember those important dates, show up, contact the school and have them send you information that you need for him, make special time to do things. Be there to talk, let him get this out.

kat


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Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory