WAW Affair admittd 3

[Ontheup]

Sounds like you are on the right path Ontheup. Thumps up for you. You'll make it.
Now I'll read this article/thread everyone is talking about. Bc I'm on the brink of family getting involved. Sensitive topic. Where can I find it?

Hey complex. Thanks for the support

The article i read is on surviving infidelity site under wayward section its called "coming up on 2 years NC" page 8 by a user called etaoin. Its a very difficult read as its written by a man who had a fairly long affair. I found it very informative. He goes into how it started why it continued and why it ended. Be warned it goes into full details. Im probably going to get told off for keep telling people about it on here but it is the best article i have seen yet about affairs.

As far as the telling the family and exposing it, that is on another site that i wont mention. Their train of thought is basically dropping a nuclear bomb on the affair and telling everyone there by shaming the AP's so much that they break it off. Not a route im going down. My parents know. They had guessed already and some of my work colleagues know. As far as my wifes friends and family not a single person knows. If my family guessed though then it wont take much for her family and friends to realise as well. Certainly if they continue and try and have a "normal" relationship then everyone will know. Again this is not my issue.