So W is telling you to your face that she wants to be with OM and she's in love with him, but you're still "cozy in bed" with her?

Can you elaborate?

It's impossible to establish hardcore boundaries while also placating your W and being her BFF while she's in an active A. You're at a fork in the road. Which path are you going to take?


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014