Exactly, karma! I've always said- I fought for my husband, I'm not going to fight over him. No way! I was his wife, and there shouldn't be a choice.
Today, at d13 game, he was sitting a few rows in front of me. I was reading stuff on my phone during halftime, and he sent me a text, "hi mighty"
I didn't respond, but I could see him check his phone a couple of times to see if I did. Nope. I told him before, as long as he is with her- I am no part of his life.
That's my boundary- and that's that.
Not trying to look like a b, but I'm not his buddy while he is acting the way he is.
On a brighter note, got some things done today and feeling better than I have in a bit. I am seeing myself being happy and taking care of business.