Tell them what you want, and be honest with them. Especially about your temper. Better to have everything out in the open. Also, if you haven't already. Document, document, document. I'm keeping emails, text messages, everything in case I have to go that route.
M:32,H 32 T:10, M5 BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15 Served D Papers: 10/15 Divorced: 11/15