KGirl - letting the past go

[Calibri]

Re: answers - when my sitch first started, I felt (and still do feel) like I was underwater and couldn't figure out which way to get to the surface. I would ask my H to go over it with me and I would get a similar answer. As things have progressed and it's evolving into a much bigger snafu, I'm realizing that it's less me, and more him and the entire situation. I'm still struggling with the why, and I realize that one day I'll have to accept that I may never know why. You can drive yourself up the wall trying to figure it out, or perhaps you could find the closure within yourself, without your Stbx's involvement.

Re: equity. Tough titties for him. he wants out? He pays out. Don't give him any type of help trying to figure out how to pay you your fair share. I would send the email as you wrote it, but that's just me.