Maybe I just need to take the few phrases I HAVE heard and just rely on those. "I feel like I missed out on things having only dated you." "I think there are other people out there I'd be more compatible with." "You didn't trust me enough."
Some of the other phrases I won't bother with because they were just nonsense (like not having sex enough.)
I think I just want him to put in writing so that when I feel confused I can look at it and know exactly what he said, instead of potentially misremembering after the heat of the moment.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final