Damn. First W was its up to me, then she said she wanted to go to a friend after work watch the bachelor so it's not the best day maybe.

I told aunt, W busy at work and has plans after. Aunt "if only she has plans why don't you come over?" ...I don't know what to do or say now

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15