Oh and about you thinking that it's a front, that's all mindreading. It might be it might not. But the fact that you have a spouse that actually talks to you when the vast majority of LBS don't even have that, is a plus. Just my opinion.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.