Well the thing is that you are in an open M and you haven't done much to improve that situation. You say you put up boundaries but haven't enforced anything. So I'm just saying that if you've been doing something for a long period of time and nothing has changed, then do something different.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.