I totally understand the post break, its needed sometimes.
I hope and pray you did not respond to her FB post, and I know you dont usually read her FB post, its probably best not too.
Don't let her words hurt you, if MLC then she dont really know herself how she really feels or maybe what she really wants.
Continue to work on you, so that when/if your W comes out of the tunnel and begins the work, that IF you want a new R with her that you are the best H you can be.
I know its not easy, I still dont know if its harder when MLC is still living in the home or elsewhere, and it probably just depends on the MLC and how they behave and how the LBS reacts,,,so everyone can and will be a lil different.
Only thing you can contine to do is work on YOU.
Hnag in there
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW