So today was a little interesting. I was at WAW's apt for a while during a D2 pickup. Found out she went on a couple of dates with a different OM in January but she says she called them off. We talked about me getting off of her insurance, and she said she has talked to a lawyer. She gave me the impression that she wants to go the D route because she doesn't know what else to do. I found out she's smoking weed in addition to her new pot brownie interest. She said, "I guess I'm trying to get used to life being like this now." I asked her what "this" meant. She was unclear, but I understood it to mean her being an adulterer and having to live like that for the rest of her life. I did or said nothing to bring that on or aggravate it.
Also, we kissed. Actually, I kissed her, and she was receptive. I just didn't want my last kiss with her to be when she was dating the guy that helped rip apart my family. (we kissed in July before she moved out). At least right now we're both single, although there's no way for me to know that 100%. I told her why I kissed her and she said, "That's a good reason." No expectations from that, and not planning on making any more moves like that.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23