I have been lacking motivation to post here for a while - it's been a time of continued bad behaviour in terms of finances from XH, and I just have felt like I would be focussing to much on him to post details. But it is sapping my energy.
That he can still sabotage me financially after all this time - at every possible point of interaction - just gets me down.
I'm still reading everyone's posts here and keeping up with things.
One thing to reinforce for those interested in what it's like to be in mlc - the idea that time stands still for them seems very true.
XH rang D19 (using a non-identifiable phone number) the other day and when she answered, he asked if she was going off to school today.