Boy next door I can do, less so on the macho rugby type. still cute kind of works for me and you have to use what you've got (only really realising this since BD though)
So tomorrow is a bonus day with S1, sort of. He was ill at nursery and so cant go in tomorrow and so im taking the day off to look after him. hopefully he isnt too bad and we can have some quality 1:1 time.
bit of a 'confused' communication with W about this. she texted me about it first but only waited about 3 minutes before calling me. in the text she said she had S1 but on the call she was just leaving to get him. She gave me some story about why she couldnt take the day off (the agreement says it should be her) and asked if i would. I had to check my diary but then said i would make arrangements so i could. W appreciated this.
the whole conversation bugged me afterward because her reason for not being able to look after S1 is a work thing which OM1 will be at and in all likelihood based on previously similar work things means drunken night out afterward resulting in W and OM1 ending up in bed together. If things had cooled between them which prior to her moving out i got the sense it had then this is fresh opportunity for her to pursue him (again).
It shouldnt bug me, and in someways its bugged me a lot less than in the past but it still grates. I do find myself wanting to just straight out ask her about OM1 so at least I know.
BUT, in reality I shouldnt care because the more important thing is that I get S1 for an extra day.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
