i'm going to leap in with 4 different interpretations of the photo your wife sent you of S bedroom
1) she is really proud of her handywork and wanted to share with you 2) she is settling in on permanent basis 3) she is worried about S' relationship with you and is getting competitive 4) she wants you to be involved in all the aspects of S' life
or something else entirely.
No way to know so no point trying, relaxing with BFT is a much better plan. I'm a little sceptical about your curry recipe for this evening though.....
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress