Yeah they will find anything to get a rise up ... again, creating a fight with you only justifies what they are doing was right all along. And the Buisness emails .... ughhhh those are the worst ... 3 years ago I would get a text like "Hey babe can you stop off and grab some carrots for me? Thanks Love you" And now its emails "Hello CaliGuy, I wanted to bring this to your attention ... blah blah blah ... W"
Just curious ... how is her memory? In my case .. when she would go off on something like this ... I would have little to no reply or response, listen validate ... and typically she would forget about it by the next day. Sometimes its better for your own sanity to just disregard the things you know she is doing to provoke a fight ... side step and use her own momentum against her.
