"I can be her friend and talk to her more, but she is continuing to disregard my values and boundaries. "
As are you. Right now her values are different and you're disagreeing to them as well as she is with you. So the two of you are at a standstill. Talking and communicating will help to slowly lower the walls between the two of you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.