Have you read DB or DR?

You CAN'T "MAKE" her see what she's doing. That's the number one thing you're going to have to understand and the more you pressure her the wrong way, the faster she's going to leave.

We can get your M back on track, but you have to give us more info.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER