Complex #5 - progress and throwbacks

[Complex]

Thanks toots. My anxiety is going through the roof. I just can't let go of some thoughts. W went to a Hotel bar on Friday night. She even told me she went there and who she was with and told me OM was not there and she is not lying to me about it. An old nursing friend was in town and they just met at the bar at the hotel where he is staying. But the whole thing just stinks foul. The two friends who were supposed to be there are not friends with me on fb, and only two ppl. The initial friend is not a big one to stay out for so late when she has to work the next day. No bill on the credit card. The way she told me was weirdish.
So far she didn't lie when I asked her about this kind of stuff but it's just a little funky.
I could just ask one of the guys she was with if they all went out and ask not to tell wife bc I want to surprise her with sth. But it'll be suspicious. And if she finds out and I was wrong she'll be super mad and that's a big DB throwback. Worth the risk? I don't know.

I have to let gooooo. But my mind is madness today. And I feel like if I actually find out she was speaking the truth it's a big step towards trusting her more for me. If she lied and met with OM, oh well, then I know at least. I won't freak out.