We talked a bit about the logistics of our separation. I was very clear that I didn’t want to see other people. He said he couldn’t promise that he wouldn’t get physical with someone else while we were separated
Did you believe he was going to separate from you to work on the M?
In the VP of the WAS, the LBS make themselves look a little ........well, foolish, when proclaiming your intentions and meaning you expect the same from him.
He gave you as honest an answer as you've probably had so far. He has no intentions of living like a monk. If you want to live like one, that's no skin off his back. It is not going to influence him to do the same.
I am afraid your attempts at trying to be the W he has always wanted came too late in the stitch. It hasn't worked out for your benefit. Maybe you should consider a different approach.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
