Originally Posted By: Cadet

Did a lawyer tell you this?

The lawyer I talked to said that there's always a possibility. She said I had a better chance if I file first.

My IC said that in the cases shes seen, about 10% of the dads get full custody. And those are usually in cases of abuse or neglect.

Originally Posted By: Cadet

Personally I would do whatever it takes to be with my kids.
Nothing - not even wild horses would keep me away from them.

You need to be the BEST DAD that you can be. JMHO

Agreed. Which is why I am curious as to what the W has in mind and why I am torn. As per the rules, I cannot discuss this with her until she is ready. But it is something I have been thinking about.

Also, through all of this the W has said that I am a great dad to the boys and that has never been an issue. I think this is the only positive thing she has said about me in the past few months.

Last edited by Leon01; 02/16/15 09:00 PM.

life is too short....