The Owl and the Pussycat

[sage]

I have to get this apartment for me. I have to. He wants to help with costs and me moving in, and I am going to let him. I still won't file, but I won't stay in this stuck place either. I need physical distance just as much as he does right now.
Does that seem dumb to you guys?
Hugs,
Myrrh

I don't think it seems dumb at all -- doesn't it make sense to construct the sitch so that you can do your best DB'ing? If physical distance is an important component of that then why not do it?

Sage