ship - I'm with Mr. Bond. Perhaps you need to really figure out what you want. Do you want to be a person that makes these mistakes again with the next girl? Or do you want to be a person who tries to get back in the ring with the X?

I have been upset & angry too. The key is that I do my best to not show the STBX that side of me no matter what. I have only a couple minutes to show her the best possible characteristics of myself. On the bad days, I focus on the munchkins and am very happy and playful with them at pick up times. On the good days, I will look her in the eyes and converse.


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015