ship - I'm with Mr. Bond. Perhaps you need to really figure out what you want. Do you want to be a person that makes these mistakes again with the next girl? Or do you want to be a person who tries to get back in the ring with the X?
I have been upset & angry too. The key is that I do my best to not show the STBX that side of me no matter what. I have only a couple minutes to show her the best possible characteristics of myself. On the bad days, I focus on the munchkins and am very happy and playful with them at pick up times. On the good days, I will look her in the eyes and converse.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015