Question: should I tell my W again that I don't want to D? I feel that in our last MC I didn't stress it enough.
Personally, I feel that some LBH'S say it too much. If you have told her, and if she heard it, then there comes a point it could be seen by her as you being in a weaker position.
I lean toward Robx's attitude of "Yeah well this sure isn't working for me!". It tends to take a lot of wind out of the sail of the WAW. It is not always best that she knows every feeling you have or what you may decide. I really believe the WW should have concerns about her H and he should not continue to give her assurances while she is in that mindset.
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I found a book on filing legal documents in the house last night. The W said she would make the D amicable. Not sure what that means to her, but we'll see.
Sounds as if you confronted her about the book.
What she means by amicable? "I'm going to take every thing away from you that the law allows, with a smile on my face".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
