W still having PA with OP

[4mendmj]

IC session today. Reading more about detaching from the above link and realizing how wonderful it sounds but how hard it will be in application. Reading some of the stuff in there calls out I am a chronic fixer and have been "trying" to save her for too long which has prevented me from moving on. Reading that detachment stuff hurts frankly. I know it is the right thing, I get that, but it means I have to "give up" on what I care for. I know I can still love the person but not let the cr8p affect me anymore but I also know it means I have to start moving forward for me and D6 and not for her too.