Well said, job. Bea, I am thinking of you. Sometimes I forget that all the wise people here, who have endured so much and have such amazing advice and input, still are in the trenches in their own way.
It is unbelievable how this MLC thing really works (or works agains??). It also helps me realize that I have noting I can hold onto. I mean, you and the others who have been through this long enough are truly amazing people. And it's bc you knew when to let go, what you can (yourself) and can't control, and just let it run its course.
I'm sorry, bea, I'm not trying to make it about me. I am just amazed that you guys are so amazing and still have some aftershocks of the MLC that you are dealing with.
Take care of you, bea. I hope you kids are able to handle everything well, that they get some answers and some sort of healing from this, too.