The Owl and the Pussycat

[sage]

Myrrh --

WELL...I don't think you're back at square 1 (though I'm sure it feels that way) -- WHY? Because you are well-versed in DB technology, no? So, that means that you KNOW how to approach and process the information that h is giving you AND at the same time, figuring out what you need to do for yourself...

What did you hear over the weekend?

* h doesn't want to talk about D -- so don't
* h doesn't want to work on "Our" issues -- so stop asking him to

You said the only thing you could do is:

I don't know what to do, other than get hooked up with my doctor and a counselor, begin my apartment search, and wait for him to file.

Well, yah, that's actually a step in the right direction, no? Get back to DB'ing for YOU...focus your energies on the things that you CAN control which is YOU and your issues. STOP pursuing h (it's backing him into a corner).

I (personally) don't think he's going anywhere for now so heed his discussion of his concerns with the M and get cracking!!!!

Sage