Thanks V and OTU. It's easy to tell others not to believe anything.....and harder not to actually believe anything yourself! I'll try harder with this one. I can certainly see, like with your W OTU, that saying we are 'over' makes having the A more acceptable and legitimate. Or as you say V - could just be 'testing the concept out' - or that he truly believed this at that time Oct/Nov and may or may not still do now!
Anyway - thanks for your comments and best for me not to wonder! Reading Gan's post, it sounds as though she really does know that she'll be okay either way. And that's nice to read....and I do think I'm approaching that point too.
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
