Mine ran around and told anyone who would listen our m was over even going so far as to announce it at a meeting!
Just my Instinct, if h doesn't want you to see where he's spending then there is something to hide.
My h has hidden in a fashion the ow, I haven't seen or met her. Others have, but h pretends she's just a friend. He refuses to Intro her to anyone. He lied heaps about what when where etc.
My thoughts is it will all come out. Ic said" doesn't matter how much you try to hide the truth it has a way of wiggling out."
Eventually things will come your way, patience is the key.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
