That seems a very reasonable and intelligent assessment (and of course I would expect no less from you) - and still with a cliff hanger at the end!
As you know I'm in a similar boat with regards to contact and knowing what H is or isn't up to. Except for me there is (has?) been OW very much involved.
My only comment is that approach B - which doesn't seem unreasonable by the way - inevitably needs you to be ready to hear a cold truth. I'm sure you know this already and I'm pointing out the obvious. I can understand where you're maybe at on that though. If you are GALing and having a relatively pleasant time, it's tempting to lumber along in limbo for a while longer and not risk that blunt 'end' to things. Although it needn't be an end unless you wish it - although it may feel like one 'for now' if it happens.
Just a little question. Is your H an 'avoider' by nature? Mine is, and this may account for him having told others our R is over, but not me.
Glad you had a nice GAL weekend! x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
