Tootling along.

[Sotto]

Thanks all. Well, we survived Valentines Day weekend. No contact from H - much as expected. And not a bad weekend all in all. Went to the parents for lunch yesterday and Aqua Aerobics GAL in the evening.

Wet and grey here this morning. Will the sun ever shine again I ask myself. I'm looking forward to a few weeks time and some (hopefully) mild spring weather. Doing some work from home today and Mum-sitting this evening. Not GAL as such, but she has two fabulous carers and we have a good chat and a laugh when they come.

Complex, I understand what you say about reconciliation. Whilst I'm not closing the door on our M yet. I find it hard to even imagine H and me happily together again. Maybe that's always the case with waywards - their behaviour isn't very lovable is it? I can see if there were some genuine repentance and desire to work on the M it might well be very different.

Quite a busy GAL week for me. Volunteering tomorrow, yoga Wed, meal out (new ladies group) Thur and meeting SS & his Mum on Fri.

Was due to see the mutual friend who told me H said our R was over. Haven't seen or spoken to her since Nov. We were due to meet at Xmas but I was ill. She's lovely, but I feel awkward about the dynamic that she knows where H is at and I don't. She texted last night to say she is ill and may not make it down for a visit. Was partly relieved in truth...it's a shame that this situation has affected our friendship. She told me she feels pretty cross with H putting her in the position he did (telling her our R was over but not telling me - still hasn't).

Oh well....on with the day Toots! Have a good one everyone...:-)