I second that. Have to tell myself over and over again "do what works" smile and some of the stuff you did obviously did work, so continue but continue with caution.
Be advised tho to "mirror" him, which means all the action has to come from him right now, not from you.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15