Didn't check in on you for a while.
That's very very interesting and good developments. Gotta read more of the last couple pages.
Just don't get too excited about it please. Stay as calm and focused on DB as you possibly can. The sitch is far from being over. Focus focus. Keep detachinv although it might even feel more weird right now. Keep GAL.
If you continue it might draw him even closer to you. Just do everything reasonable. Think about a reconciliation scenario too, it's very helpful.
Your S is so fresh, there is a LOT more work you two have to do before you can have a healthy relationship again, if that's going to happen.

Plus one thing, he's a man. He might want something that all men want which is also slightly mind altering wink don't give in if he wants sex right now. It's a dangerous game in your situation.

Last edited by Complex; 02/16/15 03:32 AM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15