The Owl and the Pussycat

[Lyrael]

ARGH! I am in a really stupid, obstinant place right now, I guess. I called him (darnit) and we arranged that he will pick Rhane up from daycare and keep him Tuesday and Wednesday, and I will pick him up from daycare Thursday night.

I don't think the Incident was the marriage breaker for him, I think it was his own feelings of unhappiness. I have no time left - he is planning on filing right after we file for bankruptcy - the appointment that I have to reschedule is right now on April 17th.

I don't know why the no contact Betsey - I guess I am hoping that if I give him a LOT of space, he will maybe miss me. Maybe that's a stupid thought. He told me today that I could e-mail him, then asked which e-mail address I would be using, my yahoo or hotmail. I guess I don't understand why he is keeping the lines of communication open when he wants a divorce. Maybe he is just trying to be friendly. But I don't know. I think he will file.
Cya laters,
Myrrh