barely holding on - 7

[u-turn]

Still wayward and still unrepentant - I would say so. She has been in the affair (on and off as she says) since last march and we have been in various states of in-house separation with the most serious and defined being now. It has been so difficult and it is still not working for me. I still cannot detach enough to not care about her A.

My response to finding out that she does not care about my boundaries is where I am now. That is why I feel like the next phase of the conversation will help define what I want to happen now. I want her to leave if she intends on continuing the A. I totally sounds like an ultimatum to me, but it has been a very long time and I do not see another way to give her a reality check and for me to not feel walked on any more.

What else can I do? I feel like I've come a long way because I am not upset by any of this any more - I am only tired.

She will likely not want to leave and then I have to decide if I will leave our house.