Stop it Myrrh. For one, if a man physically strikes a woman, I would want his head on a platter. You know how protective of people I get. (Yes, think back to our first 'putz' posts.) You are not in a position to harm someone the way a man can.

Do not think that I am trying to excuse your behavior. It was wrong. But I do not believe Dustin will see this as a marriage breaker.

Step back, follow Bets advice and do something for YOU today. Get your mind back together. You can't do that dwelling on the past you cannot change.

You have made correcting steps, allow them to develop. That patience thing here. I'm going to pull out the 2x4's next time

To the pool woman!!


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