the difference in the interactions just felt really noticeable so i dont understand what changed - I think i was pretty much the same both times, cheerful, focused on the kids with just a couple of business like exchanges that reflect our situation.
the big difference the second time is that i was in her house.
well she texted me this evening to tell me S1 was feeling better (he was very slightly off this morning) and we had the briefest of exchanges (2 messages each). She didnt really need to text me about it and given her attitude earlier im surprised she did.
I've spent a bit of today in a whole, this is just so stupid frame of mind as well a bit of disbelief that she doesnt live here anymore. Not too sad or down about it, more incongruous.
so bit of nothing weekend but not too bad. and next weekend i have the kids
The women at the kids nursey comment on how much like me both the kids look - its the blonde hair and blue eyes mainly. Cute is my best look
Vanilla, for once your notes may have an inaccuracy my wife had a lot of complaints that she felt disconnected from D3 and blamed me for this. She does say she feels like she has reconnected with D3 now though
since my parenting realisation when D3 was about 6 months old, she and I have always had a really strong bond.
D3 does know how to work mummy and daddy to her advantage though.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
my wife had a lot of complaints that she felt disconnected from D3 and blamed me for this. She does say she feels like she has reconnected with D3 now though