toots and ontheup, very wise words. So true. We have to constantly ask ourselves for the reasons we are doing this. While our S is lying to us we are also lying to ourselves. And it's hard to see the truth. It makes sense to really picture a reconciliation scenario. And sometimes then we don't even see one, or at least see its way more complicated the we would hope for...
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15