sounds very interesting indeed. I can see why it would also be really confusing. Its certainly going to test your detachment, it might be worth having a plan for tomorrow to help avoid any slump.
With the card and restating it isn't what you want I think toots is right and you need to make sure you give her plenty of space.
Glad youve had a positive weekend (except for the fish).
You need to finish the season you're on as the new one starts on Tuesday.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress