Sounded like it was a pretty good talk all in all. Sounds like you did well with the listening and validating and so on & that your W isn't really sure what she wants at this stage.
Still, you're not in a bad place IMO. If she was all set on moving to D, I'm sure this would have been an opportunity to say that. Plus, to have taken place after you sent the V card is a reasonable sign.....Sounds like she is feeling the consequence with your S - but that's the reality when you decide to S. You only get to live with your kids part of the time.
Don't know what else to say Edz...I guess time will tell. But it sounds as though you're doing the right stuff. My advice would be any time you've done a little pursuit, like the card - draw back and see what happens with your W. Is she warmer, cooler and so on.
Hey, sorry about little fishy - that's a shame :-(
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
