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He did it once, and got burned.



Because of last night? The hiccup has been adressed, you've had a good chat with him, you are taking positive steps to correct the issues that brought this up. I still think he is more upset with himself allowing things to escalate. Let that feeling ease and you'll hear what is really up. He still loves you and obviously cares for you.

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My hope is that while I work on the anger issues alone and don't have contact with him, he will realize that I am not the only cause of his unhappiness.


This one is out of your hands right now. You have to focus on your happiness. Take care of that wife he loves and get her back to the woman he can't live without. You know and we know you can do this.


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