Sage- You're right - our separation was all about anger and fighting (and more secondarily an OW). I don't really know how I will work on it when he and I will not have ANY contact. It only seems to be an issue when he and I spend a lot of time together, so my being able to convince him I've changed seems completely impossible. He did it once, and got burned. I very much doubt he will expose himself to the possibility of such an interaction again. Wow, I am feeling pretty hopeless right now. I still can't believe anyone thinks there might still be a chance to save my M. My hope is that while I work on the anger issues alone and don't have contact with him, he will realize that I am not the only cause of his unhappiness. But I guess he hasn't filed yet, right? *sigh* I just don't know. Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
