vdubber yesterday hit me hard too. I sent her a text telling her I was proud of her and admired how hard she works, she busts her ass managing a restaurant, and I hope she sells out all her seatings. She didn't respond. I did avoid calling her for two weeks and last Monday she called me asking how things were going. I firmly believe not pursuing her is the correct course to heal my R. I know things go well when we talk about the kids or I compliment her, if I talk about R or contentious issues things get out of hand and she gets mean. I have to remember to do what works and don't do what doesn't work. She mentioned family counseling when I was still incarcerated back in September, I need to bring that up this week in a non pressuring way. She is living 4 hours away from me and her kids and in the middle of a MLC I believe. Stay strong, you'll get there. Some days I feel great and realize this isn't ALL my fault - which I was believing before - but it takes time. It seems like me and all the friends who know us think we will get back together. It seems the only person who thinks we won't is her..
H49 W48 She left 12/25/2013
SS26 SS 24 D20 S19 D 18
Wife moved out left 17, 18 an 19 yr olds at home when I was incarcerated for tax evasion to take a job and live 4 hours away.
