The Owl and the Pussycat

[sage]

Gosh -- I'm so sorry for what's been going on for you. To me there IS hope...and I think that the gut-wrenching, soul-baring stuff that you and h are doing..while painful...is a step to get towards what is really, well, real.

I cannot remember the details of what brought you to this board in the first place but if I'm reading into your posts accurately -- anger and physical interactions and knock-down fighting has much to do with it. I'm sure it may not seem so today but those habits (and please don't think I'm trivializing them, I'm not) can truly be unlearned.

Can you refocus and redouble your efforts on THAT?

Sage