Thanks toots for the VD wishes and also for looking into my threads once in a while. Your advice is always calming.
I'm glad things are relatively calm around you revently. I guess that is a very very good thing. I like how easy you said "we will D, we will reconcile".
Good attitude towards sth that is still scaring the hell out of me.
But I guess at some point you were able to make peace with yourself, is that right? Was there a moment when you came to peace? smile

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15