Thanks UTurn, it's tough. I guess it's selfish for me to want things to be OK. But I have to accept things as they are. I'm working through so many emotions it's difficult and I will keep bettering myself. I'm going to see Psych next week alone and with wife(not about marriage ) according to her about our son. It's hard to understand how she can compartmentalise all of these things happening in our lives. I suppose it's so she can stay in her guilt free cocoon that she seems to have built. For me it's pure anguish and mentally exhausting. I have to be better at working this plan, particulaly no R talk, I get sucked into thinking I can talk her into changing her mind at this point I just need to accept it and take care of me and let the other stuff just happen around me. Much easier said than done!
Me 41 Wife 38 T20 M13 S8 D3 Bomb 1/26/15 A confirmed 2/19/15
) according to her about our son. It's hard to understand how she can compartmentalise all of these things happening in our lives. I suppose it's so she can stay in her guilt free cocoon that she seems to have built. For me it's pure anguish and mentally exhausting. I have to be better at working this plan, particulaly no R talk, I get sucked into thinking I can talk her into changing her mind at this point I just need to accept it and take care of me and let the other stuff just happen around me. Much easier said than done!
